Thursday, April 17, 2008

The Manliness of of Men

I disagree with Mansfield that manliness and sensitivity are incompatible. Stereotypically, manliness is seen as being tough, rugged, and willingness to die for a cause. The stereotype of sensitivity is seen as more feminine. However, in reality, one can have both qualities. A man can be manly, but not have to push people around or dominate women. There are many tough people who are at the same time sensitive because they still care about other people and how they feel. They can be strong, but know what crosses the line in how they use their strength to control. I think that having both these characteristics is valuable and leads to a more well-rounded, balanced person. Eustice Conway epitomizes manliness, but he still shows sensitivity. His sensitivity isn't related to people but rather to nature and how he appreciates it. He chose to live what one would view as a manly life partly because of his love of nature.

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